Hello all!!!
Brother EddieR, it's funny you asked about me, I had just clicked on my ramp icon to pose a question to MAB and I saw you ask about me! LOL cool timing brother... But before I forget...
Well first my question before I forget, and why I jumped over here... It's funny, and so true what MAB and y'all said sometimes people just move along, and get busy with life, I was actually just about to email MAB a question via regular email, and I paused and said to myself... "Self... aren't I kind of being unfair to writers newer than myself by not posting it on THIS forum that has been so invaluable to me over the past 3 1/2 years?" I had a palpable brief moment of guilt, so I jumped over here to ask it, because like y'all say alot of people lurk, it would be wrong of me to keep knowledge MAB so willingly shares that a newer writer could benefit from! That's why I jumped over to this forum. Again though... It's like MAB said... It's life... With most people, myself included... I started this post waiting in the Kroger parking lot with 7% phone battery, and no charger, I had to copy and hold it, until now I've showered, washed the 3 changes of clothes I've made, I've ate dinner (and now it's 6:55pm I've got my kids in the bath throwing water about as I yell at them and sit against the wall with my phone charging)
For MAB: My question...
I met a fella last week who's a big name in Texas... He won the the TEXAS CMA Male Vocalist in 20fifteen... Long story short he was the guest at our NSAI meeting this month, me, him, and one of the Houston coordinators shot the bull for about thirty minutes in the parking lot after the show... Super nice guy, we were "Facebook Friends" and I didn't even know it, he was talking cowriting with me and the coordinator and said while he was busy, and didn't cowrite often, etc. made mention he wanted to write with us, separately or together, didn't matter... I didn't want to but in on their cowrite plans when I walked up out of courtesy, but eventually the conversation segwayed into us writing... He gave me two cards, and turned out we live very close to one another... I sent him a very short, matter of fact text, to which he responded yes, chk schedule, etc. I didn't hear back for a week so I kind of wrote it off as either I said the wrong thing, or he wasn't interested... Well today he messaged back saying he hasn't forgotten about, me, apologized, and said he's pegging down a time, asap... Which was very nice, I appreciated, but now I need to respond....
Here is my question...
I have found out he is on the bill with another big name Texas artist I'm friends, and write with for about the biggest upcoming music festival Texas has (no not Kerrville MAB) lol it's the two day event, The Ziegenbock Music Festival featuring Cody Johnson, Roger Craeger, William Clark Green, Aaron Lewis (formerly of rock band Staind, their big smash hit was "it's been a while" now he's country I think his most successful song to date is "country boy" which is a cool song, loosely based on his rock star life and coming back to his "roots" he's very anti establishment and makes no bones about it, he's got his money, and is well received in Texas especially and throughout the South), Eli Young Band, Pat Green, Cory Morrow, Josh Abbott Band (i mentioned them to you on my tour and said it felt funny to watch a Texas Band on cmt at your house) any ways these two fellas are on the main bill together, I mean their picture and all, not fine print side stage with no pic (i'm not downing those guys understand) I'm just making a point... Would it be an act of gherming to compliment him on making the main bill, and mention I've written often with another one of those fellas? My thought process works to ways, this guy really doesn't know me, just that I'm a writer so if he knew I've written with his "peers" per say it may add credence to putting a little fire under him to write.
On the other hand THIS IS TEXAS and while the smile in public, many are fighting for the same venues, and some flat don't like each other! LOL so I don't wanna risk losing the write if he doesn't like the other guy...
My third thought process is I know the other guy well, has a great heart, and does many shows for vets etc. for free!!! So if this "new guy" doesn't like him when/if I mention him being a friend /cowriter, well hell maybe that will tell me alot about HIS character... I'm guessing by my brief conversation, I'm not dealing with an ego, he's a genuinely good guy, never touted any of his accomplishments, hell I had to Google them!
So all that being said, I'm going to keep it short and sweet, but would it add credence to just say "hey man by the way I saw you on the bill with _____, me and him have written a few lately and become great friends, he's a stand up guy! Look forward to writing with you brother! Let me know when your schedule permits! Take care!" Or should I just wait to mention it in passing conversation, I've already got the cowrite on my own merit, so I don't THINK it would hurt, at least he'd know he's not bringing some psycho into his home, LOL that's my thoughts...
Where does the court of MAB rule on this matter? Mention name, not mention name when I respond. Don't wanna be a gherm.
Brother EddieR,
My question to MAB is kind of an answer to you as well brother, things are going great, slow, but steady... I've found my niche, (which I told MAB about in Nashville) I'm expanding my
#SupportTexasCountry thing into an upcoming and current hit Texas artist website..) It's being done thus far with VERY little up front cost, but is mainly to give exposure to artist, and build my merch brand... Matter of fact I just published my FB page last night even though I've been sitting on it for three months
http://www.facebook.com/TexasCountryTastemakers my websites ready just not published, I've got a $4.99 app on my iPhone that shoots dslr video just as good as ANY Canon T model I've seen! No joke! Anyways,
I learned the hard way with shirts, so now I've got a backup plan, for my backup plan, I'm releasing everything slowly, the only investment I'm going need eventually is a laptop, right now I wake up an hour early and go to my folks office and code, build designs, etc. every morning, as far as writing though, snails pace, but the snail is moving forward!!! My guitar is getting better since Nashville, and I've made my promises to Sweet Joelinda aka Miss Janet Love next time I'm ok in town my guitar operator skills will be much improved, don't ask OD about my rhythm!!! For the love of God don't, otherwise prepare for an hour long diatribe about how terrible I am!!! I'm teasing OD, sadly you speak the truth...
I'm actually about to pick up a $3 crappy bar stool to put in my writing room to practice simply tapping my foot Eddie!!! That's how bad I am... Lol
OD, by the way you mentioned certs, I've found cherry ludens to work well for me!
Brother EddieR,
As MAB mentioned the flooding a couple months ago, it is now raining again here in Texas off that line that did so much damage in Baton Rouge a few days ago, a high that's stalled is bringing in constant gulf moisture and it's raining every day, my roof I thought was repaired wasn't... Luckily I hadn't had time or money to replace it yet but now I'm glad I didn't! I now know where the problem really is, busy with roofer last week, on top of that the week before last brought record heat indexes... my crew (if you are eating while reading this I suggest stop reading...!)
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We were actually taking "vomit breaks" yes, breaks to go puke out of the hole then go back to work... we'd have to break and vomit, anyone who knows what humidity does, and the heat index knows when is 99 degrees and the news has a "feels like" temp... It's hot. 115 in the desert, is a joke compared to 100 degrees and humidity making a heat index of 110 degrees... That week we had to hire out mobile medical crews of nurses coming to our jobsites every other hour and literally giving IV fluids to all employees! We aren't even under out osha jurisdiction, it was just deemed need necessary.... I drank 19 bottles of water, two large Gatorades, two normal size Powerade, and a half a bottle of children's Pedialyte... From 7am-4:45pm it wasn't until 8pm that night I went to the restroom and told my wife (babe, I just realized all I've drank all day, had IV fluids, and this is the first time I have pissed since I woke up at 5:40 am!" I try to lurk often on the ramp but my job requires my phone be in the truck which literally runs all day long, it'd get ruined if it was in my pocket, the same week (oh yeah now it's 7:57pm I've had to put kids to bed, say prayers, etc. LOL) when I do try to lurk the humidity is so bad either a. My smartphone doesn't respond due to sweat/moisture so it's a lost cause or b.) The actual heat outside is so hot my phone doesn't respond to the heat of my finger/pressure using the Swype typing option.!!! Heck the other day my iphone shut off in the pocket of my vest "to avoid overheating" LMAO!!! That's only happened twice when I accidentally left it in my vehicle! Thats when I knew it was hot!!! But MAB is write, life happens, the ramp is my second home but not in the summer, I find myself ignoring calls because honestly I'm just too exhausted to lift my arm to pick up the phone!
But!!!!! I am still playing my guitar each day at lunch, in fact while all the old timer red necks still give me hell and have nicknamed me guitar zan, it's actually kind of snowballing!!! First a lady who liked a song I wrote a while back about my old work truck, wants to learn to play and wanted ME to teach her, LOL I told her I'd help with the song side and we'd "learn together" she asked me to autograph her guitar!!! LOL I refused as I told her I didn't want to devalue it, she sings my praises, but she's gung ho, typing up chord charts and really practicing, causing me to really get down to brass tacks, and she works on finger placement, etc. While I work on rhythm and timing etc. my biggest faults I've got write now, ask OD, MAB, and Phil (guys I really am working everyday on it.) Luckily we hired a guy who shreds a guitar, had a moderately successful local band, but went on scholarship to Houston Academy of Fine Arts, he's in his 50's and is an invaluable resource to have, he's brought his a couple times but he's really hard to keep up with, we're finding ways to make him more of a teacher, LOL but he's a terrific guy! One of those "there's no such thing as a dumb question types." then a few days ago I had our city mechanic bring his to learn to play with us, he's trying to play with his church choir! We had four of us upstairs in the a.c. jamming LOL and he's serious too! I snuck up on him to get a grease fitting to replace on our mini etc excavator last Thursday and he was reading chord charts too!!! Lol we joke were gonna perform at the Christmas party! It's neat to see how me showing up and people just seeing me lug my guitar in everyday has caused grown adults to pursue the guitar too! Plus it keeps me honest with my practice!
By the way to the three stooges I'm at about 80% now comfortably playing the C chord instead of cheating with that Cadd9.... That was a thorn in my side, but since Nashville that's a been huge step/little victory for me, that MAB and OD, and Phil helped me with among other things!
Ok, the last reason I don't post so much, I'm not behind a desk all day with songramp minimized LOL and I despise typing on a smartphone, and frankly sometimes I'm just to damn lazy!!! Love all you yay hoos like family... The kids got three songs to finish tonight, and I'm waiting on MABs email to respond to that one guy...
P.s.
MAB, you'll be thrilled to know while in the car with my little ones who are approaching 5!!!!! Sheesh... The other day the kid was overwhelmed by the spirit of MAB, and tried to channel you and I just broke out into your George Jones impersonation on "Too Much Blood In Alcohol Level" I've NEVER EVER seen my children laugh so hard!!! I was in tears of laughing at how ridiculous I probably sounded but they were calling for an encore! "Do it again daddy, again, again!" I fear daddy being egged on by the laughter from my children I began to embellish a bit too much and ended up singing it for fifteen minutes over and over they wouldn't quit laughing, by the end I probably sounded more like Goofy, doing an impression of Scooby Do, doing an impression of the possum, doing an impression of MAB... So for the last week I've garnered huge laughs and they love it!!! I thought you'd like to hear that MAB, I've never seen them laugh so much....
Good night all! God bless!
The Kid