REFLECTIVE DAYS
A big part of the reason I started doing this thread several years ago, was to leave behind my own "book" of sorts for people to read. It is more or less my blog, and articles that I believe will be helpful to other people. I have tried to be detailed (Long winded) in some cases because some people have printed out things I have written and it has helped them along the way. Just had a couple in the past week that did tours just because of that. Many, like Wes here, read me on other sites and make their way here, and often we are able to help them along in ways other sites are not set up for.
I often get reflective. On days like this week, where I have been somewhat sick, I look at different things and come up with things I want to say and go over. People often post things on Facebook, pictures, performances, etc. that I have done over the past eras in my life, and take me back to what I have done. A few weeks ago in Gatlinburg, my 9th grade Math teacher showed up and we talked about the old days. People in Birmingham know me from a completely different time and style of music. And even those of you who know me from here, are seeing me from a totally different era, that of the teacher than I have ever had before.
Sometimes, even I go back and say "WHERE DID YOU LEARN THAT?" As I try to talk to you about teamwork and building your own network, I have to go back over my own and remind myself where I came from. One of the reasons I have been able to stay afloat while so many others have gone totally away, is because I was always surrounded by people who could help advise me and keep me real. A lot of these people were NOT songwriters, but people behind songwriters, artists. People who were just starting out themselves, many who had come from other companies and having knowledge they had built in other sections of the industry.
There was people like Julie Daniel, (Henry at the time), who had worked as Loretta Lynne's personal assitant for ten years. She was a SONG LOVER and came to me as the new kid in town. She took me around to some private meetings and guitar pulls. As a matter of fact. hearing Justin talk about his time at the private guitar pull with Allen Shamblin, reminded me of one of my first. There were about thirty people in this private ballroom. Julie got me in because she knew everywhere. There were about one hundred people in the room around the walls. It was packed and hot. There was an empty seat, and Julie kind of sat me in it. I was in my first Nashville guitar pull.
On one side was HARLAND HOWARD, Nashville's top songwriter. "Tiger by The Tail", "Blame it on your crying Cheatin' Low Down Beaten Hungry Heart.." and a million other ones. On the other side was this guy every body knew. That was Vince Gill.
Yeah. Trial by fire.
I always did pretty well. People would invite me to stuff all the time. But I had people around me who would let me know the realities of the business. One of the first drummers on recording sessions was one of the top session players in town. John Garnder. He told me about the Inside cut.
Carson Witsett was keyboard player on my first session and in my first band. He had a dozen cuts and a couple hits. And he was still doing sessions.
Mary Mathews was a video producer and owner of the first music video studio in town. She was my behind the scenes manager for a while and introduced me to some of the biggest producers in town. She taught me to keep your mouth shut.
Mike Daniels was a producer and engineer that I worked with. His son was a very hot artist in town yet was sabetoged due to record company infighting and label change overs. Taught me that no matter how many things you think are happening, something totally out of your control can sink your entire career and you have NOTHING TO DO WITH IT.
A keyboard player I had, John Mattick who was also playing at the same time with this little band called ALABAMA. He told me about the things they went through, how tough it was to get paid even for some of the big boys.
A drummer with Suzie Boggus, who would come off tours to play with me. And showed me how to keep a band going when everyone around you would quit. Showed me how to pare down musicians to work with less.
Watching my friends, the KINLEY'S, DAVID VINCENT WILLIAMS, getting cut after cut, deal after deal, only to have them fall apart sometimes due to their own problems but sometimes with nothing to do with them.
Watching my buddy Jimmy Stewart getting a KEITH WHITLEY cut and be more excited than I've ever seen anyone get, only to have Keith be too drunk to finish the song and then DIE before he could come back and finish it. Watching him be devastated, only to have it go to number one three years after Keith died.
Watching people with record deals and climbing the charts WHILE playing with me, and finding out about the behind the scenes things they went through that cut their guts out.
Watching another friend of mine be "traded from one record label to another for a "singer to be named later." (Want a bigger football analogy?)
Watching HOLLYWOOD actors, hit artists from other genres, people with ENORMOUS Amounts of money and fame, come to town, be soaked dry,ghermed to death, and then end up with NOTHING for their effort.
Watching companies come, set up shop, make all kinds of claims and they were going to "BE THE NEW FORCE IN MUSIC" only to shut down three years later achieving nothing but bankruptcy.
Seeing writer after writer, artist after artist, move here claiming to SET THE WORLD ON FIRE, only to see them head home or just disappear six months later.
Watching people buy houses, real estate, big dreams big hopes, etc. only to find out thy got TWO HOMES, TWO INSURANCE PAYMENTS, TWO MORTGAGES. And then get underwater on BOTH HOUSES and lose them both.
Seeing people put their pension and life savings into vanity projects and ideas that "seem like a good one at the time."
People recording songs that are not there. People buying recording and sound equipment, instruments they will never learn to use. People that have their houses furnished with the bad ideas and equipment, extra CD's and other stuff they wasted money on.
Watching people get into and even win contests, only to find out how hollow a contest can be.
Divorces, break ups, losing everything.
That;'s what I have seen and why I am always guarded and while I don't want to DISCOURAGE YOU, I want to keep you reality based.
I'm lucky. I've been here a long time. Most people I have been around are all gone. I see or hear from them from time to time, but very few have hung in it. Most have other lives, families. Many are dead.
So if you learn anything from me, if you want to try to figure any of this out. Understand I am here to help you. But I also know what you are GOING TO GO THROUGH. I've seen it all.
Better ask me before you go diving off a cliff.