Phil,
Another thing I do, is in the SHOWER, or in the car, I often will JUST DO THE LYRICS. I will hear the music in my head but rehearse it like giving a speech. That way I can see how to BEND NOTES ,HOLD NOTES, or what I need to GET RID OF.
So keep at it and always let me know what you need. I'm always around for you.
MAB, thanks for that input! I edited your post down to the things I need to work on. Yes, I do like the chunky rhythm. BUT, I don't always do straight 1/8 chunks, and I know that. I will change the pattern to "change up", if that makes sense. BUT, like you said, I then get off beat by 1/4 - 1/2 a beat, and have to "slow down" or "speed up" to get back on beat. I do practice with the rhythm patterns on my Yamaha, and I do notice when I've "lost the beat". BUT, I realize I don't practice nearly enough with that.
The other issue I have, which you didn't mention, is my guitar playing skills, or lack there of. My wrist still is too stiff, and I tend to strum awkwardly and off beat, and that irritates me, in real time, and I loose concentration. Sometimes I DO just sit with my guitar and strum along with the rhythm on my Yamaha. But I don't do that nearly enough. Then of course there is always the "not fingering the chord correctly" syndrome. Or, playing the wrong chord and trying to recover.
The other thing I don't do nearly enough, is just practice only playing the guitar chord progression for songs. That is a great suggestion, and I will start doing more of that. Will probably help me with my chord changes, chord fingering, and strumming too.
As far as the lyric thing is concerned, my wife likes a lot of TV shows I don't particularly care one way or the other about. That is when I sit and go through the lyrics of a song I'm trying to work on. Then at bed time, I will go to sleep singing songs I'm working on.
BUT, I don't always do that "in rhythm". Those exercises are mostly to just remember the lyrics. I do work on the rhythm for certain phrases in the lyrics, but not the whole song.
All of these things are things I should be doing a lot of. But to tell the truth, I've always had a "concentration" problem. I either get bored and sidetracked, or I get frustrated and sidetracked. Since that is a 60+ YEAR problem, it's kind of hard to overcome! And of course, when the "fun" becomes more like "work", I will get lazy and quit! And the reality is, if you want to get better at anything, it IS WORK!! There's no getting around it!
I am probably beyond help at my age, but thanks for your help!! I will start trying some more of those concentrated exercises and see if that helps me.
phil
